there are many types of friends, you know the usual best friends, fake friends, just don’t want to be lonely friends. But there is one other friend but i can’t put a name to it. This kind of friend complains about everything life has to throw at her, the one where as soon as you say one word or even if you don’t she flips from being bubbly and sometimes annoying to moody, grumpy and still annoying. they just can’t find that middle man.
I want to give you an example, last week a girl at my school in one of my subject lessons was sitting in the study where all the sixth formers hang before, in-between and after lessons. She was with all our other mates and she wanted to go to class fifteen minutes early. She asked one of our mutual friends if she would accompany her, but she said no, then she moved on to ask another friend who said no. Then of course she asked me. I had no reason to stay in the Library and no reason not to go with her to class so i thought it would kill some time and i could catch up on what she did over the weekend.
Later on when the whole class joined us our mutual friend who happened to be her best friend texted me saying she’s having a big row over BBM (blackberry messenger for all those who don’t have a BB). I myself don’t have one but i do know anything you put on a status can be seen by your whole contact list.
To cut the rest of the story short she was in a mood for the rest of the WEEK let alone day and not just with the friend she was arguing with but everyone she came close to. This hasn’t just been this incident but almost every day.
I just had to rant about this because i needed to get it off my chest how much it annoys me that she is never happy and always complains as though the whole world revolves around her and she’s the only one who exists on the planet.
I don’t quite know what to call this type of friend, maybe selfish but if anyone knows how to deal with THIS type of friend please comment below because I’ve got this all next year too.
Many thanks for your help
MissPepperpot 😉
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